High End Prostitution on CNBC

CNBC is running a special on high end prostitution and I’m watching it as I work on one of the sites.  According to the research quoted by the network, more than 33% of wealthy men have paid for sex in the past five years and, according to the women, they talk about how the big selling point for the top part of the market is that these men can confess to the escort things they would never tell their wives or best friends, most of which has nothing to do with sex.

My immediate thought is – what the hell kind of relationship do you have in your life where you have those kind of walls built around your heart? I mean, if you can’t tell your friends or your spouse what’s really going on inside of your head because you’re scared of judgment, you have some serious issues.  Maybe it’s because I’m an egomaniac, though … that just seems so weak.

Ellary said it’s because the type of men that work on the trading floor are insufferable.  After all, who’d want to be close to them?  She has a point.

 

Trying to Disprove Your Own Ideas

A family member came by today and the course of the conversation got me thinking about the reasons that I have managed to achieve everything I set out to do with far less effort than should be required, and succeed, whereas most people never do.  One of the secrets, I think, comes down to the way I frame questions.

Most people, when they have decided upon a course of action, look for confirmation of their hypothesis from other people.  They ask questions of their friends, family, co-workers, and mentors, but subconsciously, they frame those questions to only reach the conclusion that they, themselves, desire to hear.  This inevitably leads one to believe they have sought input and wisdom whereas, in reality, they have merely attempted to delude themselves into thinking their actions are prudent based upon feedback that was faulty in its premise.

In my own case, whenever I start thinking about launching a new business, making an investment, or proceeding with a course of action, my primary objective is to disprove my own conclusions.  In other words, I look for reasons not to do something.  Only then, after intense scrutiny, do I proceed with a small fraction of the ideas that were originally considered.  I attempt to avoid, at all costs, first conclusion bias.

 

9 Out of 10 Afghan Soldiers Illiterate

According to a new research article by the Associated Press, nine out of ten soldiers in the Afghanistan army are illiterate.  That statistic shocked me and, frankly, made me realize that there isn’t a lot of hope (at least in the short term) for many of the countries in the world.

How can we expect a nation of millions of people, who act no different than animals promoting a superstitious belief that God will punish them if a woman dresses a certain way or they perform certain sexual acts, to sit down and rationally examine the failings of their own political system when they can’t even set down and have an internal dialogue for progress that requires a lot of reading.  The United States of America was founded by one of the best educated and literate groups of men in the world and we are far richer for the wisdom and legacy they handed us as part of our cultural heritage.

Why Illiteracy in Afghanistan Is a Problem

Years ago, I read a book called A is for Ox that detailed specific structural changes in the brain that were caused when someone learned to read.  One of the most powerful was the ability for advanced abstract thought.  According to research, illiterate adults often had a harder time identifying intangible concepts such as spheres, instead likening everything to objects with which they had contact and familiarity, such as an orange.  The authors go on to document the significant social ramifications of this phenomenon, explaining that language development in humans does far more than give us the ability to speak and communicate.  It stimulates the necessary internal brain functions that serve us for the rest of our lives and help us progress in every discipline including science, the arts, philosophy, and politics.

For countries like Afghanistan, I’m reminded of an IMF report that I read in my early twenties that provided documentation proving that the single most important determinant of a nation’s economic and educational growth was the length of time that it experienced domestic tranquility.  In other words, entrepreneurs aren’t going to risk everything their family has to open a bakery on the town square when men and women are blowing themselves up outside his windows each morning.  The result is economic expansion remains illusive and, as a result, the education system fails to produce rational, well balanced adults.  It’s a cycle that can be difficult, if not impossible, to break.

 

The Sin of Sodom and Gomorrah

Discussing the Sin of Sodom at a Family Dinner

After we left St. Louis, I stopped by to visit family and spent an afternoon at my grandmother’s house having dinner, discussing politics, and Christianity in general.  The conversation was great and had many of the same topics that the younger generation of Christians have been discussing on everything from abortion rights to international trade.

One of the things that came up was how often Christians spout scripture that they believe they know, yet have little or no understanding of where it occurs in the Bible, the cultural traditions of the times, or why it’s important in the broader scheme of the historical record.  Most Christians don’t even realize that the Catholic Bible used for thousands of years, and the more recent Protestant Bible that became popular after Martin Luther rebelled against Rome, have different books in them! If you need a reference tool, see this site, which lets you look up every translation for any given verse.

Using the Sin of Sodom as a Case Study

A perfect case study is the story of Sodom and Gomorrah and the often referenced sin of sodom.  Please note that before we proceed, this has nothing to do with the current political debate – I’m not even going to go there right now.  Instead, it is an easy to understand illustration using a story that everyone who grew up in a Christian environment should know and be able to understand instinctively, making it a perfect tool for explaining our criticism with the state of the collective Church in the United States at this moment in time.

The background: In Hebrew, the word Sodom means “burnt” and the word Gomorrah means “a ruined heap” so the names that we now use to refer to the cities must have been given after the disaster and not the original names used by the people who lived there.We also know that Sodom and Gomorrah were not the only cities God destroyed in this manner – Admah and Zeboiim were also destroyed in judgment (see Deuteronomy 29:23).

For thousands of years, the word “Sodomite” literally meant “someone from Sodom”, just as American means someone from the United States.  In fact, the word “Sodomite” didn’t have any sexual connotation until the 13th century when the word came into the English language.  Yes, you read that right … the definition didn’t come into existence until 1,300 years after Jesus Christ walked the Earth. 

I think the worst part is that most Christians are so uneducated they don’t realize that sodomy includes oral sex, including oral sex among married couples (go pick up a damn dictionary). For centuries, man and wife, in the marriage bed, having oral sex was an unspeakable, filthy, abomination that required total repentance thanks mostly to the preaching of St. Thomas Aquinas, who believed that sex should exist only for procreative means.  Modern American culture, however, has conveniently forgotten this definition and now the same Christians that hold signs condemning sodomites go home and commit sodomy a few times a week, talking to friends and family about the holiness of their marriage bed.  It’s baffling people stake their soul on a book that most of them aren’t even willing to read in its entirety (that’s one of the reasons that my freshman year in college, I worked by way through every word from cover-to-cover over the course of eight or nine months).

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A $31,000 Lesson on Paid Search

I’m sitting in a Brooks Brothers bathrobe in a seventh floor suite in St. Louis working on the company MacBook.  For the past few weeks, I’ve been toying with paid search at our e-commerce businesses.  We’ve always had great success with organic search and, in many cases, dominate our keywords leading to terrific sales at a very low cost.  However, with paid search, our staff wasn’t as familiar with the mechanics and the best way to get a high conversion rate.

We approved a budget to test out the process and learn in a trial-by-error format.  It took us some time, and in the beginning, we were spending a lot of cash without seeing any conversions, but toward the end of the period, it started to make sense to everyone.  Our overall conversion rate for the trial was terrible, but when broken down on a time-line, it was steadily better, allowing us to start making quite a bit of money toward to the end.  The result: We are now going to either launch a full paid search campaign or hire a paid search specialist to run our campaign.

Anyway, here are the results of our efforts … the good news is, even though we spent just shy of $31,000, our profit margins are sufficiently high that we were able to break-even on the expense despite the low conversion rate.  In essence, when the taxes are calculated this year, the cost of the advertising will be offset by the profit on the sales it generated so there wasn’t a lot of downside.

Google AdSense Screenshot

 

Stuff Christian Culture Likes

I was reading a blog called Stuff Christian Culture Likes (as someone who grew up in that culture, believe me, it’s spot-on and funny), and one of the comments left by someone named Bebe pointed out a very interesting fact that most of my Christian friends ignore:

[By the way] is anyone aware that the Bible gives examples of eight different types of marriage covenants without condemnation? That is, one man plus one woman; one man plus more than one woman; one man plus one or more women and concubine(s); one man plus one woman plus her female property/slave; one man slave/one woman slave; one man rapist plus his female victim (bought and paid for); one male soldier and his female POW; and one man plus his dead brother’s wife. Yet today we have only one form which we approve and endorse. Of course, plenty of Christians will say how these are Old Testament hook-ups, so they don’t apply to the New Testament Christians. Yet Jesus came to fulfill the Law, so Christians can’t really just ignore everything before the Gospels because doing so denies the truth God gave to the Jews, who remain his chosen people. And, after all, inerrancy means that the whole salad bar is to be eaten, not just the olives and the cucumbers.

So, going back to the horseshoe political theory, if someone’s going to demand that gays can’t get married, then damn it, as a Christian man, I’m going to insist on my biblical right to a wife plus a massive harem of concubines. Yep. It’s my prerogative. I have spoken with my scepter of pure awesomeness.

Seriously, though, I’m getting tired of this conversation at dinner parties and political fundraisers.  I keep getting asked whether I support ENDA.  Of course I support ENDA – why the hell would I care if my web coders are transgendered if they get the job done and build my empire?  Seriously?  What kind of weak-mined nut jobs think this is problem?  If I knew a team of SEO specialists that could get me to the #1 spot in Google for the new products we’re launching at the luxury gift store, I don’t care if they want to come in to the office and re-enact Priscilla Queen of the Desert as they craft their HTML, ASP, and PHP.  Honestly, if they did it, I’d buy them a performance stage as a perk.

Don’t people have more important things to think about during the day?

 
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