February 5, 2012

Psychology

Maintaining Sacred Spaces By Carving Out a Secret Places and Rituals for Yourself and Your Family

Denny Crane and Alan Shore from Boston Legal

If any of you remember the television show Boston Legal, each episode ended with two main characters, great lawyers Denny Crane and Alan Shore, having drinks and cigars on the balcony discussing the cases and events of their day.  They were best friends that took time to block of a private area of their lives that was open only to them; a ritual that was both exceptional and routine.  That intimate space was "theirs" and, though generous, it was a sacred time they weren't willing to share … [Read more...]

Mental Model: The Micawber Principle

The Micawber Principle

In Charles Dickens's novel, David Copperfield, published in 1850, the eternal optimist Wilkins Micawber was known for saying "something will turn up".  He was poor but lived in expectation of becoming rich, sometimes foolishly taking on debts due to the belief.  We have Micawber to thank for one of the most famous sayings in personal finance, often called The Micawber Principle. "Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen pounds nineteen and six, result happiness. Annual … [Read more...]

Mental Model: Gaslighting

Gaslighting

One of the big themes that I perpetually hit upon is that you, as a rational, responsible adult, should not outsource your thinking.   When it comes to what matters in life, you must rely on your own judgment and analysis of the facts.  In the words of Benjamin Graham, "You are neither right nor wrong because the crowd disagrees with you.  You are right because your data and reasoning are right."  After all, if you can't make your own decisions, how can you focus on your own … [Read more...]

Mental Model: Horns Effect and Halo Effect

Horns Effect and Halo Effect

One of the most powerful, and potentially harmful, mental models you will encounter in your life is known as the horns effect and halo effect.  It can cloud your judgment, and because it is closely related to the mere association mental model, has the power to cause you to make sub-standard decisions or hold irrational beliefs.  You must train yourself to actively fight against it.   What is the horns effect and halo effect?  It is a cognitive bias that causes you to allow one trait, either … [Read more...]

Mental Model: The Thief Among Us

Thief Among Us Mental Model

One of the things that has perplexed me for a long time is Charlie Munger's insistence that a significant minority of humanity is wired in such a way that they will steal if given the opportunity, regardless of whether or not they need the resources they are taking from another person.  Whether this is an adaptive evolutionary trait (which would make sense) or a byproduct of other mental models, he asserted that this known fact makes it important for the people designing society's systems to … [Read more...]

Do You Rely on Intuition or Reflective Reasoning When Drawing Conclusions?

Intuitive Thinking Versus Reflecting Resoning

There is a quick test that can help you determine if you rely on intuition or reflective reasoning (intellect) when making decision.  Answer the following question as quickly as possible: "A bat and a ball cost $1.10 in total. The bat costs $1 more than the ball. How much does the ball cost?"  Do you have your answer?  Good.  Now I want you to think about it.  Commit to it.  Say your answer out loud.   If you are an intuitive thinker that relies on your gut feelings, it is highly … [Read more...]

Wendy’s Brilliantly Relies on Mental Models from Psychology to Reinvent the Classic Wendy’s Cheeseburger

Wendy's Hot 'n Juicy Dave Cheeseburger

Wendy's recent commercial introducing the remade cheeseburger named after founder Dave Thomas is one of the best examples of marketing and psychology I've ever seen.  It's brilliant; mental models applied in a constructive way.   I'm not going to take the fun out of it, but be on the lookout for some of the clues as to which mental models are at work: By invoking the imprimatur of the founder through his daughter and namesake - yes, the real Wendy of Wendy's - it immediately lends credence … [Read more...]

Mental Model: Calibration Errors

Calibration Errors

Calibration errors are when people lack the genetic or cultural ability to calibrate communication based upon the situation, people involved, or other contextual clues.  To understand calibration errors as a mental model,  it might help to give you three real-world scenarios that would require the observer to calibrate the hyperbole. A group of frat boys lives together in a private fraternity.  On a Thursday night, one sent a text message to another that said, "I'm going to kill you."  … [Read more...]

To Have a More Successful Life, Understand the Motivations and Motives of Yourself and the People Around You

Underlying Motivations Featured

Last month, I promised to pull more essays from my past out of the file cabinet.  This one dealt with motives and understanding how they influence human behavior.  This insight is one of the reasons I decided to avoid going to work on Wall Street after graduating from college and instead putting my higher goal - being near my family, setting up my own household with my spouse, and having large blocks of free time to pursue other passions no one knew about - ahead of my secondary goal - … [Read more...]

A Secret Glimpse Into My Psychology Profile, Compliance Theory, and Autism

Compliance Theory

All this talk about psychology, Myers-Briggs personality test results, etc. led to some conversations involving a paradox that very few people know about my personality. On the Autism-Spectrum Quotient test, I scored a 12.  The average score of the control group was 16.4 and someone diagnosed with Autism generally scores above a 32. On the Empathy Quotient test, my score is 38.  A normal score for men is between 33-52. My Systemizing Quotient score is 72, considered extremely high … [Read more...]